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Tuesday, November 28, 2006

Okay so all of a sudden a lot of people I know are going through divorces.  This really freaks me out because I have always been kinda leery of marriage anyways and now when people I never expected to split are splitting I am totally scared!  What does this mean from the girl who hasn't even had a decent date in a few years, I think I am so screwed! On another note, I had a big lecture from a friend on not sleeping around....and while I think this is a valid point I also feel that at this age I can make my own decisions and have to do what is the best for me.  And only I can decide that! 


Monday, November 27, 2006

Okay so yesterday was my 25th birthday, and I figured that this may be a good way for me to keep track of my life for the next year.  I am going to try to use this for self reflection  and hopefully grow from it....and in some cases hopefully it will remind me of things that I have forgotten (and hoped to forget).  Okay my background is that I work as an interior designer, I live downtown in a midsize southern city, I enjoy my girl friends, don't date as often as I would like, love clothes, wine, food that I don't cook myself, and people watching.  Since it was my birthday yesterday and 25 seems like a pretty important year I have decided to catalog my most important friendships because honestly I don't have the time or inclination to to clutter up my life with pointless relationships....Leslie, my oldest friend and one of my dearest friends she is always willing to listen even when I know she doesn't agree with what I'm telling her.  Caroline, we have known each other for eons and only recently started hanging out again but she always does the right "friend" thing...calls when she should, doesn't break plans, sends cards, and is on the same page as I am with so many life things.  Laura, always willing to talk and hang out, we have shared some great times. April, she and I have a meeting of minds like no other, she gets the parts of what I'm thinking that no one else does.  Laura, going out buddy and downtown buddy, she also is a great sounding board for my life.  Lauren, we have been friends for forever and had some huge ups and downs but she means a lot to me.  Amy, basically my sister. Amy, hopefully someday we will be business partners, she is my life model, sort of.  Okay so is it weird that these are all women, I have never thought so but maybe the fact that I don't have any men that I am not related to that I have any significant relationship with is telling.